The Psychology of Ball Busting

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‘Devilishly Divine 6’2 (188cm) Feminine Supremacist, Sadistic Sweetheart, and Ball Busting Beauty,’ reads my FemDom X bio. Naturally, it’s only appropriate that I recently was approached by a connection I made through my personal publicity work to answer some questions for a Kinkly article on my favorite activity. I’ve compiled my responses to her questions into a freeform thread of thoughts and will post the link to the completed article on my feed once it is live.

Though the exact reasons as to why each submissive or Dominant would enjoy ball busting are as unique as the individual, I’ve encountered a few specific scenarios and profiles in my time as a professional Dominant. It’s sometimes true that there was an event in a submissive’s life where their groin was injured in some way by a person they were attracted to, creating a connection between the arousal in that moment and the blow received that the submissive then seeks to recreate in their personal sexual experiences. Still there doesn’t necessarily need to be one defining moment in a person’s life which triggers the kink, many interested in the submissive side of D/s dynamics encounter ball busting naturally in their explorations and research before a curiosity ensues. Others still may have been introduced by a Dominant who loves the kink which results in the submissive connecting that act to a specific kind of catharsis and euphoria. Similarly, many Dominants seek out ball busting for a euphoria and catharsis of their own. Personally, I enjoy ball busting for the same overarching reasons many of my clients do. Overall, it can be considered to ideally encapsulate the psychology and sexualization of the power dynamic at play. Many of my ball busting clients cite the arousal as stemming from the inherent power and control a Dominant has over them when their most vulnerable parts are at the mercy of their Dominant. There’s a genuine life-or-death element at play given the submissive is trusting the Dominant to not permanently damage or impair their reproductive organs.